Home›Guides & Information›Mental Health Help & Support›Mental Health Support: Recognise Signs & Seek Help

Mental Health Support: Recognise Signs & Seek Help

Seek urgent help if you or someone else is in immediate danger, has suicidal thoughts with intent, cannot stay safe, or is experiencing a severe mental health crisis.

About this guide

Seek urgent help if you or someone else is in immediate danger, has suicidal thoughts with intent, cannot stay safe, or is experiencing a severe mental health crisis.

Need urgent mental health help?

Seek urgent help if you or someone else is in immediate danger, has suicidal thoughts with intent, cannot stay safe, or is experiencing a severe mental health crisis.

Immediate danger Call 999 or go to A&E.
Urgent NHS support Call 111 and select the mental health option where available.
Talk to someone now Samaritans: 116 123, free, 24 hours a day.

Understanding mental health

Mental health affects how we think, feel, behave, cope with stress, build relationships, make decisions and manage daily life. Everyone has mental health, just as everyone has physical health.

Mental health can change throughout life. Many people experience periods of stress, anxiety, low mood, burnout, grief, loneliness, trauma or emotional difficulty. Experiencing mental health challenges does not mean someone is weak, failing or unable to recover.

With the right support, information, treatment and understanding, many people recover, manage symptoms effectively and live healthy, fulfilling lives.

Signs someone may be struggling

Mental health difficulties are not always obvious. Some people openly discuss their struggles, while others hide how they are feeling.

Emotional signs

  • Persistent sadness
  • Anxiety or excessive worry
  • Irritability or mood swings
  • Feeling overwhelmed
  • Emotional numbness
  • Hopelessness
  • Increased anger or tearfulness

Physical signs

  • Fatigue
  • Sleep problems
  • Appetite or weight changes
  • Headaches
  • Stomach problems
  • Chronic tension
  • Frequent illness

Behavioural signs

  • Withdrawing from others
  • Avoiding activities
  • Reduced motivation
  • Increased alcohol or drug use
  • Missing work, school or appointments
  • Neglecting self-care
  • Risk-taking behaviour

Cognitive signs

  • Poor concentration
  • Forgetfulness
  • Racing thoughts
  • Negative thinking
  • Difficulty making decisions
  • Feeling disconnected
Back to top ↑

Early warning signs

Recognising difficulties early can help prevent problems becoming more severe.

  • Feeling stressed most days
  • Changes in sleep patterns
  • Increased anxiety or worrying
  • Reduced enjoyment of activities
  • Feeling isolated
  • Increased irritability
  • Avoiding responsibilities
  • Constant exhaustion
  • Difficulty coping with normal tasks
  • Changes in eating habits
  • Loss of confidence
Seeking support early can often improve outcomes. You do not need a diagnosis before speaking to your GP, NHS services, a school, employer, charity or trusted person.
Back to top ↑

When to seek help

Many people delay seeking support because they believe they should cope alone. Consider seeking support when:

  • Symptoms persist for several weeks
  • Daily life is becoming difficult
  • Work or education is affected
  • Relationships are suffering
  • Anxiety feels overwhelming
  • Low mood continues
  • You are struggling to cope
  • Self-harm is occurring
  • Alcohol or substances are becoming a coping mechanism
  • You feel hopeless or unsafe

You do not need to wait until a crisis develops before asking for help.

Back to top ↑

How therapy works

Therapy provides a safe, confidential space to discuss thoughts, feelings, behaviours and experiences with a trained professional. Therapy is not simply about being told what to do.

Therapy may help people to:

  • Understand problems and behaviour patterns
  • Explore emotions and difficult experiences
  • Identify triggers
  • Learn coping strategies and practical skills
  • Set goals
  • Build resilience
  • Improve relationships and wellbeing
  • Manage symptoms

Many people feel nervous before their first appointment. This is completely normal. Different therapies suit different people.

Back to top ↑

Types of counselling and therapy

Counselling
Counselling provides a supportive environment to talk through stress, anxiety, relationships, bereavement, life changes and emotional difficulties.
Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT)

CBT helps people understand the links between thoughts, feelings and behaviours.

It may be used for anxiety, depression, OCD, panic attacks and PTSD.

Read NHS information about CBT
Talking therapies
Talking therapies include a range of evidence-based treatments delivered individually, in groups, by phone, online or in person.
Read NHS talking therapies information
Person-centred therapy
Person-centred therapy focuses on empathy, self-understanding and personal growth.
Psychodynamic therapy
This explores how past experiences, relationships and unconscious patterns may influence current difficulties.
Trauma-informed therapy
Trauma-informed therapy recognises how abuse, neglect, violence, PTSD and significant trauma may affect a person's feelings, behaviour and sense of safety.
Family therapy
Family therapy can help families improve communication, resolve conflict and understand one another's experiences.
Couples therapy
Couples therapy may support people experiencing relationship difficulties, communication challenges or trust issues.
Group therapy
Group therapy may allow people to share experiences, learn from others and reduce isolation.
Back to top ↑

Mental health conditions and topics

These links provide starting points for learning more. They are not a substitute for professional assessment or diagnosis.

Common conditions

  • Anxiety disorders
  • Depression
  • Panic disorder
  • PTSD
  • OCD
  • Bipolar disorder
  • Personality disorders
  • Eating disorders

Further conditions

  • Psychosis
  • Schizophrenia
  • Self-harm
  • Addiction
  • ADHD
  • Autism
  • Burnout
  • Social anxiety

Related difficulties

  • Health anxiety
  • Phobias
  • Sleep problems
  • Bereavement
  • Trauma
  • Intrusive thoughts
  • Paranoia
  • Loneliness and isolation
Back to top ↑

Additional mental health topics

Emotional wellbeing
Building resilience, self-esteem, confidence, emotional regulation, mindfulness and self-care.
Life challenges
Relationship breakdown, divorce, family conflict, parenting stress, caring responsibilities, financial stress, debt worries and cost-of-living pressures.
Education and young people
Student mental health, exam stress, university anxiety, bullying, social-media pressure and young adult wellbeing.
Workplace mental health
Stress, burnout, workplace bullying, returning to work after illness and reasonable adjustments.
Physical health and mental health
Chronic illness, disability, chronic pain, cancer support, Long COVID and medical trauma.
Neurodiversity and mental health
ADHD, autism, executive dysfunction, masking, neurodivergent burnout and rejection sensitivity.
Community and identity
LGBTQ+ mental health, cultural identity, faith and wellbeing, loneliness, isolation and community support.
Back to top ↑

UK mental health support services

Back to top ↑

Support is available and recovery is possible

Mental health difficulties can affect anyone, regardless of age, gender, background, income, culture, sexuality, disability, religion, education or life circumstances. Experiencing anxiety, depression, stress, burnout, grief, trauma, loneliness or emotional difficulty does not mean someone is weak or failing.

Recognising warning signs, understanding available support, learning about treatment options and seeking help can make a meaningful difference. The NHS, local authorities, schools, colleges, universities, employers, charities, advocacy organisations, families, carers and communities all have a role in supporting mental wellbeing.

No one should feel they have to struggle alone.

Information notice: This page provides general UK information and does not replace professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Service availability and contact arrangements can change. In an emergency, call 999 or go to A&E.